Introduction

  • James 3:6-12

Take their little problems seriously …

  • I Thessalonians 5:17; Romans 12:12
  • I Peter 5:6-7 - God wants us to come to Him with all these things.
  • Colossians 3:12
  • Psalms 103:13
  • Those little problems are big to them!
  • James 1:19
  • “The way children spell love is T-I-M-E.”
  • If I’m talking, I’m not listening!
  • Proverbs 29:20 - Don’t speak until you know the facts!
  • You want your children to grow up knowing that you will listen to them and they trust you.

… but give them a Biblical perspective.

  • II Corinthians 12:7-10 - God chose not to take this problem from Paul.
  • Romans 8:18 - Paul maybe appreciated this ideas more after having dealt with his own thorn in the flesh.
  • Ephesians 6:4
  • We must instruct them based on values in the Bible.
    • Proverbs 14:12
    • Romans 12:14, 17-21 - Overcome evil with good.

Reprove and rebuke …

  • I Samuel 2:22-25; 3:13 - Eli did not go far enough with discipline.
  • Proverbs 28:23
  • Be careful to not create a situation where your child will become a master manipulator.
  • Proverbs 18:17
  • Proverbs 25:11
  • Proverbs 15:2
  • Maybe don’t:
    • Correct your kid publicly in front of their friends if the matter would be better handled privately.
    • Rebuke your kid when you’re both tired (unless it is urgent).
    • Come down hard when it might be better to share your own experiences and help the child learn from what you’ve gone through.

… but don’t go to irrational extremes.

  • Proverbs 12:18
  • Proverbs 15:28
  • Colossians 3:21
  • Ephesians 6:4
  • Ephesians 4:29