Introduction

  • Genesis 26:3
  • Exodus 33:14
  • Joshua 1:5 - “I will be with you”
  • Luke 13:22-28
  • Fathers should be there! Fathers matter.

Step up and deliver fatherly love!

  • Ephesians 6:4
  • Philippians 3:17 - Follow good examples.
  • It is our job as fathers to be there and be that example.
  • I Timothy 5:8, 14 - A father must do more than just bring home a paycheck.
  • I Timothy 3:4-5 - If you’re only bringing home a paycheck, how would you be qualified to be an elder?

Don’t underestimate the influence your love has on your family.

  • I John 3:16
  • Matthew 18:21-22, 27, 30-35 - Be gracious with others!
  • Your grace will set the tone in your family.
  • I Thessalonians 2:5-12 - Paul was there to encourage and show tender love, just like a father should.
Who attended church regularly? Percentage of kids who became regulars
Mothers only 2%
Neither 4%
Fathers and mothers 33%
Fathers only 44%
  • Baptist press survey:
    • “If a child is the first person in a household to become a Christian, there is a 3.5 percent probability everyone else in the household will follow.
    • If the mothers is the first to become a Christian, there is a 17 percent probability everyone else in the household will follow.
    • But if the father is first, there is a 93 percent probability everyone else in the household will follow.”

Learn how to say “No.”

  • I Samuel 3:13; 2:33 - Eli talked to his sons, but did not do enough to correct their behavior.
  • Colossians 3:21
  • Hebrews 12:7-11
  • As fathers, we must make sure discipline is present in the house.
  • Proverbs 13:24 - Discipline is what you do for children you love.
  • Proverbs 19:18; 23:13; 29:15-17
  • A child who has always gotten what he wants will have trouble submitting to God.