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  • A failure vs. a person who fails
    • The question is not whether we will fail, but how we will respond when we fail.
    • Will failing be a stumbling block or a stepping sone (Proverbs 24:16)?
  • Real failure is when you abandon your post.
    • The one talent man (Matthew 25:24-30) assured his own failure by not pursuing success.
    • Wicked: God considers inaction to be as evil as inappropriate actions.
    • Slothful: Excuses for passivity are often just cloaks for laziness (Proverbs 22:13).
  • Real failure is when you abandon your post.
    • Paul had a stewardship entrusted to him (I Corinthians 9:16-17), and he was determined to be faithful in it.
    • He knew from the beginning how much he would suffer for the Lord (Acts 9:16).
    • He learned to endure, even appreciate, his “thorns” (II Corinthians 12:7-10).
    • Are you willing to “take the shot”?
  • Real failure is when you hedge your efforts.
    • Demas was willing to be a “fellow worker” with Paul (Philemon 1:24).
      • He “loved this present world” (II Timothy 4:9) and abandoned him.
      • Was it the lust of the eye? The lust of the flesh? The pride of life? (I John 2:16)
      • Whatever it was, it wasn’t his “first love” (Revelation 2:4-5).
    • The widow (Luke 21:1-4).
      • Her commitment to God’s work did not depend on her circumstances.
      • Jesus cared about the hearts of the people, not the rocks of the temple.
      • Are you committed or just involved?
  • Real failure is when you “surrender to your past”.
    • Judas did not see the significance of his betrayal until too late (Matthew 27:3-5).
      • He could have been brought to repentance (II Corinthians 7:9-10).
      • Instead he was driven to despair.
      • If Jesus forgives us, we must find a way to forgive ourselves.
      • “God is greater than our heart” (I John 3:20).
    • Peter did not see the significance of his betrayal untill too late (Matthew 26:69-75).
      • He trusted in Jesus, not himself (Matthew 14:28-32).

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  • Lonely feelings vs. loneliness
    • Loneliness is an obsession, not a feeling.
    • “Finding someone” does not cure loneliness; it merely masks symptoms temporarily.
    • Treating lonely feeling is easy and fulfilling, but it is not a long-term cure.
    • God offers a real cure; are you brave enough to take it?
  • God doesn’t want us to be alone.
    • We need the strength fellowship provides (Ecclesiastes 4:9-12.
    • That fellowship must be on His terms.
    • The greatest loneliness is isolation from God (Psalm 42:1-3.
  • To cure loneliness …
    • Think future, not present.
      • Lonely ones pick comfort over security.
        • The rich fool (Luke 12:16-21 thought he was planning ahead; he was really just planning to “eat, drink, and be merry”.
        • No relationship is worth putting your soul at risk (I Corinthians 15:33.
      • Lonely ones pick encouragement over growth.
        • “You’re okay the way you are” is not always what a lonely person needs to say.
        • Nor is it what he/she needs to hear (Revelation 3:19.
    • Think others, not self.
      • Loneliness is not “my problem, your fault”.
      • Waiting for others to fix our loneliness is selfish, prideful, and doomed to failure (Proverbs 18:1.
      • We need to put ourselves on the other end of Matthew 20:26
    • Trade doubts for faith.
      • We serve a God of mountains and valleys (I Kings 20:23.
      • Trust God means accepting His will (Philippians 4:12-13.

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  • Darkness is …
    • Where the devil reigns
      • The “domain of darkness” (Colossians 1:13.
      • The world is dark because “the prince of darkness” rules over it (John 12:31.
      • All who live under his reign are his slaves (I John 5:19.
      • Demon possession was unique to the 1st century, but spiritual warfare has always been (II Kings 6:17.
      • If God’s angels carry out His will on earth (Hebrews 1:14.
      • They are everywhere, promoting “the course of this world” (Ephesians 2:1-3.
    • Where sin abounds
      • Most people prefer Satan’s darkness to God’s light (John 3:19-20.
    • Where we learn of hell
      • Being separated permanently from God’s light will be the worst part of hell (Matthew 25:30.
  • Banish darkness by …
    • Recognizing light
      • God provides an alternative to darkness (Isaiah 9:2.
      • Through faith we can see the light (Acts 26:18.
    • Embracing light
      • Our initial choice must be followed by a continual choice (Ephesians 5:8.
    • Becoming light
      • We are driving to share the light of Jesus (Ephesians 5:11-13.
      • It is our duty to take the battle to Satan (Romans 13:12.
      • Failure to do so shows a lack of light in ourhearts (Matthew 6:22-23.

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  • The future is God’s
    • We fear the future because we cannot control it. (James 4:13-16
    • Christians turn the future over to God. (Proverbs 23:17-18
    • God is not focused on life’s minutia, nor should we be. (Matthew 6:31-32
    • God focuses on eternity. (I Timothy 6:18-19
    • We are clay in His hands. (Jeremiah 18:1-6.
    • If we turn out wrong, it is because we are pressing toward our idea of the future and not God’s (Romans 9:20
    • Will we have the faith and humility to accept His plan, or insist on our own? (Jeremiah 29:11
  • Are we grabbers or givers?
    • Ecclesiastes 11:1
    • The people of this world are afraid to let go of control they don’t really have.
    • We give God our present (Psalms 112:5-9
    • We also give God our future.
      • If Abraham was willing to offer up Isaac (Genesis 22:12, we can bend our vision of the future to serve His purposes.
  • Are we campers or claimers?
    • Israel chose the wilderness because they feared the future would be worse (Numbers 13-14.
    • Are we as dissatisfied with the status quo as God is? (II Chronicles 5:1-4
  • Are we waiters or walkers?
    • The time is now to seize your destiny.
    • The Jordan didn’t stop flowing until the priests stepped into the river (Joshua 3:14-16.
    • The most hazardous time to walk may be the most crucial (Ezekiel 13:5.

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