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The divorce rate has risen greatly in the past 100 years.
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In 1900 the rate was about 8%.
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In 1940 the rate was about 20%.
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In 1970 the rate was about 33%.
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In 2011 the rate was about 50% of first marriages.
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The rate was about 60% of second marriages.
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The rate was about 73% of third marriages.
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Regardless of the cause, God hates divorce.
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One of the best safeguards against divorce is marrying a Christian.
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I Kings 11:1-8
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The four major causes of divorce have been listed as follows:
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Sexual incompatibility
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I Corinthians 7:1-3 - Husband and wife are to fulfill their duties to each other.
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Financial irresponsibility
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Galatians 5:3 - Christians are to show self-control.
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Alcoholism
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Proverbs 20:1 - Drunkenness condemned
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I Peter 4:3-5.
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Religious discord
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It is a great strain to a marriage when both are not Christians.
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Things that will make divorce impossible:
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Love and respect for God’s law
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Love and respect for one another
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Do not be angry at the same time.
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Do not go to bed angry.
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Knock out selfishness. Do not say: “My mate is not treating me as he/she should.” Rather ask: “Am I treating my mate as I should?”
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Summed up: be a Christian!