-- / --

Introduction

  • I Timothy 3:1-7

Review

  • We are seeking a balanced approach to this topic.

“Manages his own household well”

  • I Timothy 3:4-5
  • Dignity or reverence here could be referring to either the father or the children.
  • Titus 1:6
    • Does faithful here mean that the children are faithful to the earthly father or that they are Christians?
    • The word behind it (pistos) can be translated either “believers” of “faithful.” Context is key to determining the precise meaning.
    • Faithful to their earthly father:
      • Strengths:
        • Context seems to favor the more specific contrast.
        • Harmony: If I Timothy 3:4-5 is a parallel.
      • Weaknesses
        • The number of translations going with “believe” is greater.
        • Is I Timothy 3:4-5 an exact parallel, or supplemental information?
  • What about children who are grown and gone?
    • What about Proverbs 22:6?
      • Proverbs are general truths that have exceptions.
  • Must a man have a plurality of children?
    • Does the plural include the singular?
    • I Timothy 5:4
    • Matthew 22:24
    • Genesis 21:7 – The plural includes the singular here.

“holding fast the faithful word”

  • Titus 1:9
  • An elder must be able to refute error.

“not pugnacious” (violent, striker, bully)

  • I Timothy 3:3; Titus 1:7
  • Elders shouldn’t be itching for a fight.

“gentle” (patient)

  • I Timothy 3:3
  • Contrast I Peter 2:18

“peaceable” (not contentious, not quarrelsome)

  • I Timothy 3:3; Titus 3:2

“free from the love of money” (not covetous)

  • I Timothy 3:3

“not fond of sordid gain” (not greedy for gain, not greedy of filthy lucre)

  • Titus 1:7

“not a new convert” (novice, recent convert)

  • I Timothy 3:6

“good reputation with those outside” (well thought of by outsiders)

  • I Timothy 3:7

For further study, see also:

Questions or comments? Join our Discord server for further study.


-- / --

Part 1: The roots of Israel’s apostasy (Judges 1:1-3:6), continued

The unfolding and consequences of apostasy (Judges 2:6-3:6), continued

Joshua’s death and the coming apostasy (Judges 2:6-10)

  • There are ancient monuments and reliefs that reference Israel in the land of Canaan in roughly 1400 B.C.

The recurring pattern of Israel’s apostasy, God’s grace, and God’s anger (Judges 2:11-23)

  • Deuteronomy 12:29-32 – Baal was a storm God.
  • God told them clearly that worshiping idols was abhorrent to Him.
  • Judges 2:19 – Israel’s downward spiral. When they relapsed, they did even worse than before.

The testing of Israel (Judges 3:1-6)

  • Judges 3:5-6 – Israel fails to remove the Canaanites.

Part 2: The downward spiral of Israel’s apostasy (Judges 3:7-16:31)

Othniel (Judges 3:7-11)

  • Othniel was either the younger brother or nephew of Caleb and was married to Caleb’s daughter.

Ehud (Judges 3:12-30)

  • Ehud was left-handed, or “restricted in the right hand” as the Hebrew says literally.
  • Eglon’s name means, “little calf.”

Shamgar (Judges 3:31)

  • Shamgar is mentioned again in Judges 5:6, but not much is known about him.
  • An ox goad is not normally a particularly lethal instrument.

Takeaways

  • The pattern in Judges – described in Judges 2 and oft-repeated throughout the book – demonstrates God’s steadfast love. He listens to the cries of his oppressed people and arranges for their deliverance.
  • God responds in like manner today to those who cry out for his help out of sincere repentance. He has sent the perfect judge-deliverer, Jesus, to save us from the bondage of sin (Romans 5:6-8).

For further study, see also:

Questions or comments? Join our Discord server for further study.


-- / --

Introduction

  • Acts 20:17, 28
  • I Thessalonians 5:12-13
  • I Timothy 3:1

Why study this?

  • To help our current elders be motivated in their work.
  • To help other men prepare for this work.
  • To help the rest of us appreciate their work.
  • To differentiate between tradition and God’s word.

Overseeing souls

  • Acts 20:28-32
  • I Thessalonians 5:12
  • I Timothy 3:4-5
  • Hebrews 13:17 – Elders are keeping watch over souls!
  • Acts 11:27-30 – This is the only passage in the New Testament talking about elders handling money.
  • James 5:14-16 – Is this physical or spiritual illness?

Wielding the sword of the Spirit

  • Titus 1:9-14 – Elders use the Bible in both positive and negative ways.
  • Acts 20:32
  • I Timothy 5:17-18 – It is authorized to pay elders for their work.
  • Elders must be able to use scripture appropriately.

Developing their character

  • I Peter 5:1-4
  • Ezekiel 34:1-6, 10
  • Acts 20:30
  • I Thessalonians 5:12
  • Titus 1:9, 13
  • Men need to be developing their character so they can take on this role.

For further study, see also:

Questions or comments? Join our Discord server for further study.


-- / --

I Timothy 2

  • I Timothy 2:9-10 – Women’s adornment
    • She might be fashionable, but the focus shouldn’t be fashion.
  • I Timothy 2:11-14 – “A woman must quietly receive instruction”
    • “quiet”: Compare II Thessalonians 3:12; Acts 11:18; 21:14; I Timothy 2:2; I Peter 3:4
    • Acts 18:26 – Priscilla and Aquila taught Apollos.
    • Colossians 3:16 – This teaching includes women.
  • I Timothy 2:15 – “preserved through the bearing of children”
    • This would be referring to salvation coming through Mary bearing Jesus. It could also be a figure of speech, referring to all the things that women do (metonymy).

For further study, see also:

Questions or comments? Join our Discord server for further study.


-- / --

Balanced approach

  • I Timothy 3:2 – “an overseer, then, must be …”
  • I John 1:8 – “If we say that we have no sin …”
  • It’s possible to be too lenient or too strict.
  • I Peter 5:1 – Peter was writing this as an elder. Yet Jesus at one point called him Satan and also rebuked him. Peter also denied Christ.
  • People grow over time.
    • ~ 30s A.D. – impetuous, immature
    • ~ 48 A.D. – Acts 15 – Has grown, taken stands
    • ~ 50 A.D. – Galatians 2 – Hypocrisy
    • ~ 60 A.D. – I Peter – Elder

“above reproach” (blameless)

  • I Timothy 3:2; Titus 1:6
  • Colossians 1:21-23

“the husband of one wife”

  • I Timothy 3:2; Titus 1:6
“the husband of one wife” My thinking
if he has a wife; can be a bachelor No. We would need more evidence to interpret it this way.
in his whole lifetime, can’t be remarried No. We would need more evidence to interpret it this way. (I Timothy 5:9)
can’t be a bachelor, polygamist, or adulteress Yes. He’s married and there’s nothing amiss about his marriage.
he’s a one-woman type of man; focuses on his character instead of current marital status, may allow for widower or divorce Maybe, but I’m still skeptical. (Consider I Timothy 3:4.)

“temperate” (vigilant, sober-minded)

  • I Timothy 3:2

“prudent” / “sensible” (sober-minded, self-controlled)

  • I Timothy 3:2

“respectable” (orderly, of good behavior)

  • I Timothy 3:2

“hospitable” (given to hospitality)

  • I Timothy 3:2; Titus 1:8
  • The root word behind “hospitality” means “love of strangers.”
  • Hebrews 13:2

“able to teach” (apt to teach, skillful in teaching)

  • I Timothy 3:2

For further study, see also:

Questions or comments? Join our Discord server for further study.


Listen on Apple PodcastsListen on Google PodcastsListon on Stitcher

© 2026, Mark Watson

Powered by Gatsby